The famous quote “Marriages are made in Heaven” is proving to be false in the modern times, in most of the matrimonial homes the Mother-In-Law, (MIL) has brought up and maintained the Family for years but with coming of the “Daughter-In-Law, (DIL) problems start arising when she wants to make her husband and in- laws her puppets to have financial control in her hands, for her personal scores and to lead a luxurious life .
The Indian Government and the whole system including the Police the Judiciary, the Lawyers, the Bureaucrats the Society And Media are supportive and equally responsible for the present situation in the country where the concept of BREAKING – FAMILIES” is accepted as “Modern Living” The 15 “UNCONSTITIONAL LAWS” promoted by the “NCW” and acknowledged by the “LAW COMMISSION” has not benefited the society in any way as the real victims do not get justice but with the increasing “MISUSE” of laws like 498A and Domestic Violent Act has lead to violence and harassment to husbands’ family leading to destruction of the “INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE”.
The DIL comes to the matrimonial home already being programmed to hate the members of her in-laws by her “INSTIGATING” Parents. She enters the family with negative vibes. Making the “Misuse” of the “DRACONIAN” laws of 498A and Domestic Violence Act she prefers keeping her in- laws in constant fear or to come out of the marriage by extorting a hefty amount in the form of “MAINTENANCE OR ALIMONY”. In her mission of “LEGAL-TERRORISM” she does not hesitate to harass the “INNOCENT- IN-LAWS” in all possible ways-physically, mentally, emotionally, socially and above all financially. All this is done to “EXTORT” a hefty amount from the husband and in-laws when she realizes that she cannot have her desires fulfilled, she wants to get out of the marriage by extracting a huge amount so according to her the best way out is to “MISUSE” the “WOMAN PROTECTION LAWS” for “EXTORTION” by filing false cases. She is successful in most of cases as the ONE-SIDED, BIASED AND UNCONSTITIONAL” laws support her is a very common practice in the contemporary society. This is the “EMPOWERMENT” that the “NCW” has created for the “ADULTEROUS-DIL”
Why is maintenance or alimony granted to the young educated, empowered, and capable of earning DIL?
A recent survey of “AIMPF” (All India Mothers- In- Law Protection Forum) shows that an “ADULTEROUS DIL” is a liar The biggest drama of her lies can be seen in court room where the judiciary is seen accepting her lies as “GOSPEL TRUTH”, being carried away by crocodile tears and false drama.
When a “DIL” alleges false “RAPE” attacks on the male members (fathers and brothers of the husband) for vengeance is it not “LYING”? She even goes to the extent of accusing the husband of having illicit relations with his own mother. Is such humiliation not a rape of the Whole Family of the Husband”?
I read an article in the Bangalore Mirror about the nephew of our President Mrs Pratibha Patil residing in C.V.Raman Nagar in Bangalore is accused of false 498A case. My is question to Mrs Pratibha Patil, Mrs Sonia Gandhi, Mr Manmohan Singh, Mrs Girija Vyas and Mr Veerappa Moily as to what they think about such incidents? Will it be hidden under political influence or will be come out in the fore front to set a good example to show the impact of the “Misuse” of such laws by the DIL?
In the Mumbai mirror an article was published about a wife being caught red-handed by the husband in act of having illicit relations with her boyfriend. In order to save herself she accused the lover of raping her. In the court room she said that she wanted to save marriage, the lover was taken into custody after the judgment the “ADULTEROUS WIFE “ went scot-free.
An old woman of 92 years was beaten and starved by her DIL and grandson after she had written the property in their name after the death of her son.
“MISLED EMPOWERMENT TO THE DIL” by the “UNCONSTITUTIONAL AND BIASED LAWS” leads to “MISUSE” of power termed as: “LEGAL TERRORISM”. The educated and empowered DIL of today needs “ENLIGHTENMENT”. She should culminate the values of duty and responsibility and not crave only for rights.
DIL stands for “DEFUNCT INJUSTIFIED LAWS” instead of: DAUGHTER –IN- LAW.
The empowered DIL is the real arbitrator and perpetrator of violence and harassment to a whole family.
The answer this question lies on society and the Government IS THE DAUGHTER –In-LAW A DAUGHTER –OF –LAW?
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my mom is 69 yrs old widow living with my brother but ever since he got married trouble has broken out within the family unfortunately all because of my sisterin-law who all so happens to be my maternal cousin.
for most part of the year my brother works abroad & my mom & she are alone to which she starts all the problems making statements like why dont you live with your daughters why dont they support you etc.. the unfortunate part of this is our husbands are not willing to do so saying why should they as they have their own parents & we both ie. my sister & my self are house wifes so where do we get the finance to do so
i would just like to know if there is someone out there who can give me advice in this regard i would appriciate it as i do not want my mom to suffer in her old age with her daughter-in- laws ill treatment
my mamu has recently died because of the harassment by his wife for 10 long years.2 times fake dowry cases and verbal and physical abuse even when he got operated. and now that bloody bitch is not sparing my nanu, his father in law for the property but my nanu wants to give all the rights to the 2 small sons whom my mamu loved very much. because of them he was living with that bitch for 10 years. but she is so happy after the death of my mamu and also is finding different way outs for getting property. her parents and family support her and are the masterminds behind 10 years harassment. she pretends to be so sad in front of outsiders and laughs when no one is there. i am feared that after mamu she will kill other members of the family also.