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08 Mar 10 Mom’s-In-Law Have Their Day

Written by Odeal D’Souza.

Bangalore:

Odd voices of resentment struck a discordant note during the euphoric eve of International Women’s Day celebrations here on Sunday. Aggrieved mothers-in-law and husbands staged a candlelight vigil in protest against the violence allegedly perpetrated by daughters-in-law.

The protestors, belonging to the All India Mother-In-Law Protection Forum, Save Indian Family Foundation and Family Harmony Society, shouted slogans during the protest that lasted for an hour and a half in front of the Gandhi statue on MG Road.

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01 Feb 10 दहेज़ प्रताड़ना प्राविधान: सिक्के का दूसरा पहलु

Article published in the Hindi Bi-Weekly Journal “Grihashobha“.

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30 Dec 09 The Biased Judiciary

The Judges of courts are sitting on a” Responsible “and “Accountable “position. They have to be “unbiased “and” unprejudiced” in the court proceedings as well as in giving Judgments without any partiality after thoroughly hearing and studying the pros and cons of each case.

Since in the recent past many such laws like the “Section 498A”, ”The Domestic Violence Act “, “Section 125 CrPC”, “Child Custody” etc. are being “Misused” by the greedy and  malicious ”young wives” who on some “False Complaints” and “Concocted Allegations” on their in-laws, harass  a whole family  for their “Personal Scores” or “Monetary” Gains”.

We have surveyed many such cases where the judges are “Biased and Prejudiced” towards the “Husband and his family” and “Over-Protective and Supportive” towards “Adulterous Wives” in passing orders of “Maintenance and Alimony” even knowing that it is a False Case; the judges are reluctant to give judgments in favor of a “Husband” as he is already supposed to be guilty and criminal before being proven one. They think it is their moral and ethical duty to support even ‘Adulterous  Wives” by granting them favors, making adjournments by giving unnecessary dates to drag the case and finally giving a “Judgment” which  is not justified as it is based on the presumption  of  the “Allegations” to be true without the necessity of them being  verified. They are accepted as “Gospel Truth’ from times immemorial.

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11 Nov 09 A twist to the saas-bahu saga

They are looked upon with suspicion, Hindi soaps portray them as scheming, and when you get married, you are advised to fulfill her needs before yours. But in the modern times, tables seem to have turned. It’s the age of the daughter-in-law, rue mothers-in-law, who have come together to form Akhila Karnataka Atheya Rakshana Vedike (Karnataka Mother-in-law Protection Forum), supporting Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF). Over 100 mothers-in-law are a part of this association. “We have come together to fight against our daughters-in-law who have slapped false complaints against families by misusing Sec 498 (a) of the Indian Penal Code,” said Rajeshwari C, President of the Forum.

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26 Oct 09 NEWS IN DANIK BHASKAR ON AIMPF

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20 Oct 09 APMPA member Uma’s interview on new Association and debate with Sandya on TV9 at 09.00am, 20/10/2009.

APMPA video recording of Uma Vs Sandya debate on TV9 Part – 1

APMPA video recording of Uma Vs Sandya debate on TV9 – Part 2

APMPA video recording of Uma Vs Sandya debate on TV9 – Part 3

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19 Oct 09 Kyunki saas apni rights maangti hai


Members of the Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association perform a skit at Public Gardens on Monday.

HYDERABAD: It was a saas drama to the fore at Public Gardens in the city on Monday.

A ‘social forum’ which goes by the amusing nomenclature of Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-Law Protection Association (APMPA) was launched on Monday to protect the rights of harassed mothers-in-law in the State.

The APMPA is the AP chapter of already launched All India Mothers- In-Law protection forum.

Several women, supported by their sons, against whom cases of dowry harassment and domestic violence are pending put in an appearance. The women had a common complaint — the IPC 498 A or the Dowry Harassment Act was being misused by their bahus. Venugopal, a private IT employee against whom one such case is pending said, “In our society, there is a preconceived notion that mothers-in- law are bad. Finding the loopholes in the law, some wives are creating legal terrorism. The IPC 498 A is grossly misused for taking revenge or inciting hatred against the in-laws by the wives. According to statistics, 1,25,000 people are jailed because of complaints filed by daughters-inlaws and 98 per cent of them acquitted at a later stage. This shows how the Act is being manipulated with.” A member of the organisation and a mother-in-law, B Kowsalya shared her ‘bitter experience’. “My third son got married a few years back. After a while, the girl started beating him up and fought with the womenfolk of the house. She filed Sec 498 A against us. My son had to go to the police station frequently and we had to face a lot of mental trauma.” Another mother-in-law joined in to say that she lost her husband because of the “torture” they were subjected to as a result of the complaint filed by their daughter-in-law. She claimed that her daughter-in-law did not want to stay with the in-laws and so filed a police complaint. (more…)

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13 Sep 09 ‘Harassed by bahu’, 105-yr-old leads 60 of family on dharna

Rajkot : This one could well turn the scripts of the teary saas-bahu TV serials on their head. A 105-year-old patriarch of a Rajkot joint family is on a hunger strike against its own daughter-in-law — with some 60 members of his joint family in tow — outside their home in Mahudi gav.The family’s estranged bahu, they claim, has been harassing them to no end and there was no other way to get it to stop.From the 105-year-old Arjan to five-year-old Abhay, these 60-odd members of the Thummar family have been holding their dharna in the scorching heat for two days now. They claim Rekha, Arjan’s daughter-in-law, has been a source of constant harassment.

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