Comments for All India Mother-in-law Protection Forum http://www.aimpf.org We are Victims; not Vamps. Fri, 03 Feb 2012 20:09:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on About by Mother-in-Law http://www.aimpf.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-10794 Mother-in-Law Fri, 03 Feb 2012 20:09:32 +0000 http://aimpf.org/?page_id=2#comment-10794 Yeah, why not as if DILs and their parents do no harm to MILs. Correct? In fact, the DIL enters the house with a feeling of hatred and disgust towards her in-laws and especially the MIL.All she wants is to enslave the husband and alienate him from his parents. No parents would ever tell their son to behave the way you are describing so why don't you just go and give your bullshit story to Ekta Kapoor, she will make a fortune out of it. Anyways young, immature and idiotic girls like you idolize her. And your statements clearly show your frustration of being unable to alienate your husband from his parents. Come on grow up, he is your husband, not your slave. Learn to respect him and if you can't, allow him to live peacefully and go away from his life. Yeah, why not as if DILs and their parents do no harm to MILs. Correct? In fact, the DIL enters the house with a feeling of hatred and disgust towards her in-laws and especially the MIL.All she wants is to enslave the husband and alienate him from his parents. No parents would ever tell their son to behave the way you are describing so why don’t you just go and give your bullshit story to Ekta Kapoor, she will make a fortune out of it. Anyways young, immature and idiotic girls like you idolize her. And your statements clearly show your frustration of being unable to alienate your husband from his parents. Come on grow up, he is your husband, not your slave. Learn to respect him and if you can’t, allow him to live peacefully and go away from his life.

]]> Comment on About by Shilpa http://www.aimpf.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-10793 Shilpa Fri, 03 Feb 2012 19:26:28 +0000 http://aimpf.org/?page_id=2#comment-10793 It's all about only MIL's. If a MIL behaves and looks after her Daughter_in_law why will she behave like that. The problem with MIL's are they think their daugther's are perfect and DIL's will snatch their son. They are so insecure about their son and will not like to share them but make them dominate on DIL. Every woman will have a limitation and it's the MIL and other family members who are responsible for making DIL behave cruely after reaching saturation point. Live and let live. If you want your son's only for you and your daugthers dont get them married for god sake. I'm a serious victim of MIL abuse. Mine is a love and arranged marraige and my inlaws came for the wedding it was simple. MIL and FIL taught their son not to tell that he is married. Made their son say to the world that Im his friend and not wife. After two years most of them got to know that he's married. My husband's sister told that they hid the marraige as it was cheap. What should a DIL do with such cruel people in life? My husband's dad passed away I was the last person to even speak to anyone from his family. The reason is them. They made my usband torthure me as no one turned up from my family. Mil's here do you have a solution or you still support only MIL's. Please answer It’s all about only MIL’s. If a MIL behaves and looks after her Daughter_in_law why will she behave like that. The problem with MIL’s are they think their daugther’s are perfect and DIL’s will snatch their son. They are so insecure about their son and will not like to share them but make them dominate on DIL. Every woman will have a limitation and it’s the MIL and other family members who are responsible for making DIL behave cruely after reaching saturation point. Live and let live. If you want your son’s only for you and your daugthers dont get them married for god sake. I’m a serious victim of MIL abuse. Mine is a love and arranged marraige and my inlaws came for the wedding it was simple. MIL and FIL taught their son not to tell that he is married. Made their son say to the world that Im his friend and not wife. After two years most of them got to know that he’s married. My husband’s sister told that they hid the marraige as it was cheap. What should a DIL do with such cruel people in life? My husband’s dad passed away I was the last person to even speak to anyone from his family. The reason is them. They made my usband torthure me as no one turned up from my family. Mil’s here do you have a solution or you still support only MIL’s. Please answer

]]> Comment on About by Mother-in-Law http://www.aimpf.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-10689 Mother-in-Law Sat, 21 Jan 2012 09:31:55 +0000 http://aimpf.org/?page_id=2#comment-10689 check here saveindianfamily.org check here saveindianfamily.org

]]> Comment on About by SONU http://www.aimpf.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-10668 SONU Thu, 19 Jan 2012 09:52:16 +0000 http://aimpf.org/?page_id=2#comment-10668 need information for help line available in Mumbai ***around Malad west Mumbai or else another NGO etc who could give advice & help my mom who too is having daughter-in-law problem please give me a feed back & information i hav asked for Thankyou need information for help line available in Mumbai ***around Malad west Mumbai
or else another NGO etc who could give advice & help my mom who too is having daughter-in-law problem

please give me a feed back & information i hav asked for
Thankyou

]]> Comment on Announcing candle light protest by AIMPF on eve of International Women’s Day. by shruthi http://www.aimpf.org/announcing-candle-light-protest-by-aimpf-on-eve-of-international-women%e2%80%99s-day/comment-page-1/#comment-9549 shruthi Mon, 07 Nov 2011 12:15:20 +0000 http://www.aimpf.org/?p=208#comment-9549 hi to all ladies, I read the post..well the solution to problem faced by mother in law or daughter in law is to allow each of them to have a independent dignified life with love and affection. Marriage is not give and take of son or daughter. It is about starting a new family with blessings of elders.A girl brought up lovingly by her parents for nearly 25-30 yrs will never accept a new strange family as her own. Similarly a mother in law can never treat daughter in law like her own daughter. It will take years of understanding.Now there is no difference between daughter or son. Similarly let there be no difference between son in law or daughter in law. All should be treated with equal love and affection and allow to lead independent dignified life. hi to all ladies,
I read the post..well the solution to problem faced by mother in law or daughter in law is to allow each of them to have a independent dignified life with love and affection. Marriage is not give and take of son or daughter. It is about starting a new family with blessings of elders.A girl brought up lovingly by her parents for nearly 25-30 yrs will never accept a new strange family as her own. Similarly a mother in law can never treat daughter in law like her own daughter. It will take years of understanding.Now there is no difference between daughter or son. Similarly let there be no difference between son in law or daughter in law. All should be treated with equal love and affection and allow to lead independent dignified life.

]]> Comment on Daughters-in-law emerge as major abuser of elderly: Study by Mother-in-Law http://www.aimpf.org/daughters-in-law-emerge-as-major-abuser-of-elderly-study/comment-page-1/#comment-9437 Mother-in-Law Mon, 31 Oct 2011 12:44:52 +0000 http://www.aimpf.org/?p=305#comment-9437 Please ask your brother to visit www.confidareindia.com Please ask your brother to visit http://www.confidareindia.com

]]> Comment on Daughters-in-law emerge as major abuser of elderly: Study by Chaitali http://www.aimpf.org/daughters-in-law-emerge-as-major-abuser-of-elderly-study/comment-page-1/#comment-9426 Chaitali Sun, 30 Oct 2011 18:54:44 +0000 http://www.aimpf.org/?p=305#comment-9426 Hi, My brother's wife and her family regularly mentally torture my brother, they use abusive language and threaten him. They even abused my Mom and Dad because of which they have stopped going to my brother's house. After my brother's marriage my mother went to visit my brother only once that too for just 7 days on which my sister-in-law and her mother objected. They said my mother cannot stay for more than 3 days and she even said what if my Mom immolates her though while my mother was at my brother's place she had no arguments with my Mom. Because of this my parents fear that my brother's wife and her family may implicate them in false case and they have stopped visiting him. Now my parents are sick but they cannot live with my brother. My brother is very calm and gentle and they took advantage of it. He dislikes any kind of confrontation. But now is forced to argue with them everyday. And since he has to bear the abuses against my parents too and my parents cannot go to his place all this is adding upto his frustration. He is so upset that at times he calls Mom and talks of harming himself for his inablity to take care of them. We have asked him to file for divorce but he has one year old kid and fears that the custody of the kid will go to the mother. Recently my brother came to visit my parents along with his wife for the first time after two and half years of marriage so that they can meet their granddaughter but since my siter-in-law was not willing to come, she created scene infront of our family friends because of trival issue that she didnt like somthing that they suggested to my brother. This lead to arguments afterwards with my brother and now again her dad is threatening my brother. My sister-in-law is in DRDO and they say they can abuse power. My dad is very sick but today my sister-in-law and her mother called him and started threatening him and acusing him though he cud hardly interact with anyone while they were here. I want to know if there is anything that I can do to make sure that my parents dont suffer because of this. All these is affecting my dad more. Can I register an FIR against them in police. Also can my brother lodge FIR for domestic violence for mental torture. And incase he files for divorce will the custody of the kid go to Mother invariably of who is at fault here. Hi,
My brother’s wife and her family regularly mentally torture my brother, they use abusive language and threaten him. They even abused my Mom and Dad because of which they have stopped going to my brother’s house. After my brother’s marriage my mother went to visit my brother only once that too for just 7 days on which my sister-in-law and her mother objected. They said my mother cannot stay for more than 3 days and she even said what if my Mom immolates her though while my mother was at my brother’s place she had no arguments with my Mom. Because of this my parents fear that my brother’s wife and her family may implicate them in false case and they have stopped visiting him. Now my parents are sick but they cannot live with my brother.

My brother is very calm and gentle and they took advantage of it. He dislikes any kind of confrontation. But now is forced to argue with them everyday. And since he has to bear the abuses against my parents too and my parents cannot go to his place all this is adding upto his frustration. He is so upset that at times he calls Mom and talks of harming himself for his inablity to take care of them. We have asked him to file for divorce but he has one year old kid and fears that the custody of the kid will go to the mother.

Recently my brother came to visit my parents along with his wife for the first time after two and half years of marriage so that they can meet their granddaughter but since my siter-in-law was not willing to come, she created scene infront of our family friends because of trival issue that she didnt like somthing that they suggested to my brother. This lead to arguments afterwards with my brother and now again her dad is threatening my brother. My sister-in-law is in DRDO and they say they can abuse power.

My dad is very sick but today my sister-in-law and her mother called him and started threatening him and acusing him though he cud hardly interact with anyone while they were here.
I want to know if there is anything that I can do to make sure that my parents dont suffer because of this. All these is affecting my dad more. Can I register an FIR against them in police.

Also can my brother lodge FIR for domestic violence for mental torture. And incase he files for divorce will the custody of the kid go to Mother invariably of who is at fault here.

]]> Comment on About by Mother-in-Law http://www.aimpf.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-9327 Mother-in-Law Tue, 25 Oct 2011 11:31:28 +0000 http://aimpf.org/?page_id=2#comment-9327 You can visit www.confidareindia.com and contact. You can visit http://www.confidareindia.com and contact.

]]> Comment on About by Manu http://www.aimpf.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-9323 Manu Tue, 25 Oct 2011 06:04:31 +0000 http://aimpf.org/?page_id=2#comment-9323 Hello to all aimpf forum Happy to hear such an org exists My mother is 65 yrs and has been living with me . My wife was good after marriage . She got my sister married and did aal the necessary arrangments for the marriage Thus started conflicts b/w my mother and sister and my wife . My sister has been married to NRI and stays in US My wife and mother do not get on well withneach other . Frequest abuse indirectly to my mother and discuss with their family members bad about my mother .......... Now she does not my mother to stay with us . My wife 's parents also do not tell their daughter anything they are silent spectators Please suggest how to proceed further and help required Hello to all aimpf forum

Happy to hear such an org exists

My mother is 65 yrs and has been living with me .

My wife was good after marriage . She got my sister married and did aal the necessary arrangments for the marriage

Thus started conflicts b/w my mother and sister and my wife . My sister has been married to NRI and stays in US

My wife and mother do not get on well withneach other . Frequest abuse indirectly to my mother and discuss with their family members bad about my mother ……….

Now she does not my mother to stay with us . My wife ‘s parents also do not tell their daughter anything they are silent spectators

Please suggest how to proceed further and help required

]]> Comment on 498A- (DRACONIAN LAW) A Syndrome of False Cases by who cares http://www.aimpf.org/498a-draconian-law-a-syndrome-of-false-cases/comment-page-1/#comment-9166 who cares Tue, 18 Oct 2011 13:16:27 +0000 http://www.aimpf.org/?p=199#comment-9166 http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_loan-scheme-to-promote-dowry-free-weddings-launched_1335597 kerela scheme is against dowry. atleast get ur facts right. http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_loan-scheme-to-promote-dowry-free-weddings-launched_1335597

kerela scheme is against dowry. atleast get ur facts right.

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