12 Aug 09 About
All India Mother-in-Law Protection Forum (AIMPF) is the first ever social forum created to protect the rights and interests of the mother-in-law. It is a non-funded non-profit organization which will create awareness about the problems faced by mothers-in-law and also fight against the de-facto villainous projection in the socio-legal arena.
Its helpline numbers:
- +91 9886250907
- +91 80 41708757
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Dear All,
Thanks so much for this valuable cause. I am also a victim of abuse by my daughter in law. Please help me out I am 60 years old and I stay in Mumbai. Is there any phone number in Mumbai I can call and discuss.
Many Thanks,
Nirmala Sharma
Thanks to the association, as it comes as a ray of hope in complete darkness for affected M-I-Law’s. No doubt, many females are harrassed after marriage, but many a times case is vice-a-versa also, and then people are left with no option, due to fear of police, court.
Hope one day our ordeal will end!!!
Thanks for starting this kind of organisation, i think the mother in laws have also been a victim from decades. Unfortunately I have also been a horified victim of my daughter in law brutality.
G.Chandra Gopal | 09 Sep 2009 10:45 pm
Dear All,
Thanks so much for this valuable cause. I am also a victim of abuse by my daughter in law. Please help me out I am 65 years old and I stay in Cuddalore.Tamil Nadu.
Many Thanks,
G.Chandra Gopal
It is great to know that such an organization has come up to deal with daughter-in-law’s abuse of the Hindu Family Law.
If the Law Commission incorporates at least Anticipatory Bail in Hindu Family Act, the daughters-in-law will be deterred from being tempted to take malicious step to harass in-laws through courts.
I feel a collective appeal to Law Minister will be the first step to initiate the changes in Act.
If the changes are not made in the Act for fair and equal justice and protection, the marriage institution will weaken and live-in life styles increase.
Shrialluri
i am very happy to hear that mother-in-law’s association has been formed.i used to think about the same. but i doesn’t have that much of courage to talk about the problems . i think this small step of starting will be definitely useful to the people who are looking for the help from the society. but in our society only daughter-in law’s are protected ,but it is wrong to protect only daughter-in -law’s.mother-in -law’s are also struggling a lot in our society.and all this is because of commercial way of thinking.the thinking should be changed.and i think we should redefine the roles of our family members.when everybody take part in developing their own family these problems will not arise.everybody has their role in the family and they should perform the role in the correct way.
Hi Group.
Myself, my parents and other family members are abused and harrassed by my wife and her family. Uma Mam.. I saw your letter to SHO regarding abused by V. Sandhya, President of POW. Is there any thing I can do or my parents to help this community and how we can save by ourself being harrassed, extortion and blackmail from feminist and her families. I want to save my parents and as well as all the people who are in the same situation….
HI Group,
Thanks a lot from the bottom of my heart for starting this forum…I am damn sure that in todays generation mostly in-laws are in trouble coz of all bahu’s. I myself a daughter (Unmarried) and I understand this well that many families are disturb bcoz of Bahu’s. They alongwith Kitchen capture the whole home and give torture to all family members. I actually was doing survey and got this org… This is more a blog type where we can write comment.
Mam I request you to start a discussion forum where we can write our problems and can be a part of daily discussion. In that way, we can make others realise how cruel a female can be. Esp to all Bachelors who are desparate to marry and ruin their life.
All bcoz of laws these Bahu’s are destroying family. They are parting son from parents and grandson also. Even after this they are pretending like In-laws are bad and Nari is not at all a ABLA I Say taht was all old words… Those who say this go and chk 90% cases of dowry are false.This should not be done. I myself a girl 28 years old and dont wnt to marry at all.. seeing all family problems its better to be Bachelor and make other life happy.
Hello Mr Sai Kumar
I can understand your problem.Same is mine. Lost my father 7 yrs back and since then I am so fedup of the person living with me . Noone can help. Like terrorist training Females amke their husbands against Family . I am so happy Brother that you are not a part of that training and you want to come out of all this..
Great Brother.
We actually need to awake all married Males.We need to tell them that they are undergoing this serious terrorist attack of females.
If all males like you stop hearing their wives maybe we can come out a bit. Then for sure a female will think twice before doing all this.
Then we havbe to make the world aware of this organisation.
Doesnt matter whether this organisation is new but a step only makes you to success….
We have to make it more n more popular with messages so that in search engines n everywhere we can see the link.
I request all who access this plz let others know about this. SO those families who are destrying other family thru daughters they wont dare to do this anymore.
I am also one of the victim mother-in-law, aged 63 of false 498A case filed by my daughter-in-law in the police station of Vanasthalipuram at Hyderabad,including all of our family members, namely, my husband, my daughter and her husband, in addition to my son. The police had registered FIR without any sort of counselling and subsequently arrested me and my husband, retired pensioners from Bapatla, Guntur District, without intimation. Even after our release on bail, our woes did not end and we were threatened with dire consequences in the absence of immediate return of our son from Malaysia. Even now we are regularly being threatened on phone. The police on the other hand have turned a deaf ear to our pleas of innocence and have filed the chargesheet without proper enquiries.
I require advice in this regard.
Kindly suggest suitable course of action.
first of all i would like to apperciate this organisation for its efforts to save mother in laws.we are also victims of this brutual law.my father who is 75 yeras old my mother who is 65 years old r suffering extremely.they are the victims of false allegations made by their daughter in law to extract huge money.she filed a case against my parents n brothers on 9th oct.still my parents didnt get anticicpataory bail eventhough they have chronic deseases like kidney n heart.police arrested my brother(her husband)when he went to meet her in her hometown.he got bail after 15 days.where as another brother who was not present in india also one of the accused.we are in a great shock.we dont know what to do.As we dont stay in india our parents are alone and they need immediate medical attention.But we are helpless.Eventhough our pleas of innocence to police instead they are asking huge money.we are still unable to undersatnd what to do? To whom we should prove our innocensy?WE WANT TO SAVE OUR PARENTS LIFE.We need proper advice how to tackle this case.Kindly suggest us any suitable course of action.
Thanks and congratulations for thinking about the mother-in-laws too as women! As regards the mails like above, I feel that AIMLP should also put their replies on this site, so that others in the similar situation can understand whom to approach and how to go about it. In fact AIMLP should also take steps to help such victim and write about it in this forum.
I would like to contact Smt. Narisetty Veeranjaneyamma with regards to her case, as I am from vanasthalipuram and expecting a false 498 soon. I would like to see a resources section in this site with all the information and suggestions to counter a false 498. Thank you.
This initiative is indeed praiseworthy. I am not a Mother-In-Law but newly married daughter-In-Law and having a wonderful Mother-In-Law. I came across this forum while trying to gather information about the misuse of Domestic Violence Act and Section 498. I suspect my mother, father and my brother (or even me) might become victim of this draconian law.
When will the judicial system realise that time has changed and law should treat everybody as human beings.
Agreed there was a time when domestic voilence against daughter in laws was prevailent and it may still be. But why should innocent people like us should suffer?
I keep thinking why my mother or my father should suffer- all they asked was a women who will enter their house as daughter in law should become a part of the house and family and should be like their own daughter and live happily with their son!
Why should my brother suffer- all he asked was a women who will enter his life as life partner whom he could trust, love and respect and expect the same from her and whom he could trust would take care of his parents?
Why does not these girls think that they might have her own parents in a similar situation or she herself in future might be in a similar situation.
I am a daughter and a daughter in law and I stand against such mean and ill thinking daughters and daughters in law.
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My mother who is approx. 70 years old and a retired teacher lives 6 months with my brother and rest at my place in a foreign country. Whenever she is in India to visit him they treat her badly and make her life a hell. She provides them with money and has given them all her gold, plots, helped them finacially for building a house, also residential flat in the heart of the city and moreover made Fixed deposites in bank for his son. She returns to me moraly, financialy and physicaly collapsed person. Her daughter in law is the key person in such behaviour of my brother. She too misbaves with my mother and sometimes my mother has to beg them to her food. What kind of suggestions can you give her and me as a daughter. I have also asked her to completely forget India and live me, but the love for her son and grandchildrens makes her go to India. I am very much perplexed please help me.